Stressed Out: How to Handle Conflict, Difficult People and Challenging Situations
OVERVIEW
Conflict is an inevitable part of life. No matter how hard
you try, it can seem that there will always be something that causes you or
someone around you to be frustrated, angry, and impatient – or a whole host of
other not-so-pleasant emotions.
Conflict arises when the people we work with have different
ideas, perspectives, backgrounds, values, goals or expectations. Yes, conflict
can be destructive!It diverts energy from more im¬portant ac-tivities and
issues; it po¬larizes people and re¬duces co¬op¬eration; and it can produce
irresponsi¬ble be¬havior. And conflict can be construc-tive!It opens up and
improves commu¬nication; it strength¬ens working relationships and team¬work;
and it leads to better quality decisions and prob¬lem so¬lutions.
The ability to handle conflict and difficult situations is agreat leadership skill. When you are confident in your people management
skills, you don’t have to be afraid of disagreement. You don’t have to back
away from problems.
Instead you can confidently face the confrontation and bring the
issue out into the open. Well-managed conflict actually stimulates ideas,
sparks creativity and encourages personal improvement. Conflict by itself
is nei¬ther good nor bad. It’s the way YOU handle conflict that produces
con¬structive or destructive results.
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WHY SHOULD YOU ATTEND
Time is Money. There are a variety of direct costs to the
organization associated with poorly managed conflict, including, in the worst
cases, the loss of customers and good employees. One definite cost that is
visible to everyone is the time taken to successfully resolve issues. Time that
would be better spent on accomplishing work and achieving goals is instead used
to manage disagreements, smooth ruffled feathers, and deal with difficult
people.
When CPP Inc commissioned a study on workplace conflict, they
found that that an overwhelming majority (85%) of employees at all levels
experience conflict to some degree. Furthermore, they found on average, each
employee spends 2.1 hours every week – approximately one day a month – dealing
with conflict in some way (being involved in a disagreement, managing a
conflict between co-workers, etc.)
For the US alone, that translates to 385 million working days
spent every year as a result of workplace conflict. It is also a major drain on
the resources of HR departments: half of the HR workers questioned (51%) spend
between one and five hours a week managing disagreements. That’s money wasted!
The crucial issue is not whether conflict, disagreement and
difficult people can be avoided; the real concern is how they can be dealt with
that will lead to positive outcomes. If managed improperly, businesses’
productivity, operational effectiveness, and morale take a major hit. On the
other hand, when channelled through the right tools and expertise, conflict can
lead to a better understanding of others, improved solutions to problems or
challenges, and major innovation.
AREAS COVERED
These seven points will be covered:
- Identify the top six causes of conflict and which one
produces the most problems
- Understand the iceberg concept of conflict – what’s
above and below the water line
- Define five conflict management styles and match each
style to different conflict situations
- Decide if you’re a shark or a turtle or a teddy bear or
a fox or owl in how you handle conflict.
- Learn how to keep your cool and react in a professional
manner in the heat of the moment.
- Learn the language of positive communication to reduce
negative emotions, especially anger.
- Recognize the four types of difficult people that drive
you crazy and how to deal with them.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
To deal effectively with conflict you need to stop and
understand the situa¬tion and the people: selectappropriate conflict resolution
techniques: and then work to solve the problem. Conflict by itself is nei¬ther
good nor bad. It’s the way YOU manage conflict that produces con¬structive or
destructive results.
WHO WILL BENEFIT
COO’s, CFO’s VP of Human Resources, Human Resource
Professionals, Chief Learning Officer, Directors, Project Managers, Operation
Managers and Supervisors, Team Leaders, Staff Managers and Supervisors
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